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You don't have to know
exactly what you're looking for

We can start with what brought you here.

Maybe you're trying to understand your child.
Maybe you're trying to understand yourself.
Maybe you want to help your kid understand themselves.
Maybe you just need something useful right now.
That's enough to start.
START WITH WHAT FEELS CLOSEST ↓
LET’S FIND A PLACE TO BEGIN

So, what brought you here?

You don’t have to sort yourself into the perfect category. Just notice which one feels closest.

01 I’m trying to understand myself. start with you 02 I’m trying to understand my kid. look underneath 03 I want my kid to understand themselves. this part matters
OR SKIP AHEAD Actually, I don’t need the big picture right now. Something is hard. Help me with that.
A SCATTERBRAIN WAY OF LOOKING AT THINGS

Around here, we look underneath

Not to excuse everything. To understand what we’re actually working with.

WHICH ONE HAVE YOU THOUGHT LATELY?

LOOK UNDERNEATH

THE SHIFT

KEEP THIS QUESTION

YOU CAN ALSO CHOOSE A DIFFERENT WAY IN

Okay, but what do you actually want right now?

You don't have to choose by who you are or what brought you here.

choose by what you want
01
UNDERSTAND I want to make more sense of what keeps happening.
follow the why EXPLORE UNDERSTANDING →
02
USE Please just give me something helpful.
probably this one FIND SOMETHING USEFUL →
03
READ I want to poke around and see what hits.
wander a little THE CHRONICLES →
04
GO DEEPER I'm ready for more than a quick tool.
stay awhile SEE WHAT'S HERE →

ps. there isn't a wrong door

That's probably enough figuring things out for now.

Take what helped. Ignore what didn't.
Come back when something else gets hard.

this place isnt going anywhere